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		<title>My Book Went Out of Print, Now What?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 15:25:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>heymarci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I learned that my publisher decided to let One Person/Multiple Careers go out of print just a few months after its second printing, I didn&#8217;t know what to make of it. The book hadn&#8217;t sold millions of copies, but it had sold thousands, had a loyal following &#8212; and garnered continuous media attention around [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I learned that my publisher decided to let<em> One Person/Multiple Careers</em> go out of print just a few months after its second printing, I didn&#8217;t know what to make of it. The book hadn&#8217;t sold millions of copies, but it had sold thousands, had a loyal following &#8212; and garnered continuous media attention around the world.</p>
<p>As someone who spends a lot of time <a href="http://freelance.stanford.edu/reports/socialmedia/" target="_blank">talking about the book business with other writers</a>, this just didn&#8217;t make sense. But rather than whine, I took action. I asked the publisher to revert the rights back to me &#8212; which happened with relative ease and no cash on my end. And I decided to release an electronic version and a new paperback edition on my own, as the first &#8220;Heymarci.com&#8221; production. In fact, the thing that pushed me to get moving and get the e-book finished was a wave of recent interest (nearly five years after the book&#8217;s publication) <a href="http://www.lemonde.fr/m/article/2012/01/27/trois-boulots-sinon-rien_1634692_1575563.html" target="_blank">outside of the</a> <a href="http://heymarci.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/12/VisaoSlasherStory.pdf" target="_blank">United States</a>. It was killing me that there was no way to buy the book other than through Amazon, where the handful of used copies would surely run out at some point. I had some other reasons, too.</p>
<p>I wanted to start a conversation with other authors who are in the same position &#8212; wondering what to do with an older book that still has readers but has been orphaned by the original publisher.</p>
<p>I also wanted to model the kind of entrepreneurial thinking I encourage others to adopt. The timing was awful. I&#8217;m weeks away from delivering a new book manuscript to a new publisher. And my head is focused on <a href="http://www.encore.org" target="_blank">encore careers</a> &#8212; the subject of my new book. So the only way I could do this was by minimizing the labor involved. I tapped my network, found <a href="http://worthymarketinggroup.com/" target="_blank">a great consultant</a> to handle the technology parts, and gave her the updated introduction I had written months ago. I signed up for a PayPal account. My husband designed a new cover. And voila, we were ready to go in about two weeks.</p>
<p><a href="http://heymarci.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/rsz_ma-frontcover-e1327680556681.png"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1761" title="one person/multiple careers - cover" src="http://heymarci.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/rsz_ma-frontcover-e1327680556681.png" alt="" width="150" height="224" /></a><a href="http://heymarci.com/buy-the-book/" target="_blank">So here it is.</a> You can <a href="http://heymarci.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/OPMC-UpdatedIntro.pdf" target="_blank">download the new introduction for free</a>. And if you or anyone you know has been awaiting the digital version, you can order or share with <a href="http://heymarci.com/book/">this link</a>. If you&#8217;re inclined to help spread the word &#8211; either about this new edition or about how authors can be more entrepreneurial, I&#8217;d so appreciate it. And here&#8217;s a few easy ways to do that:</p>
<p>1.  Tweet (#slashcareers) or share this post on Facebook.<br />
2.  Write a review on Amazon.<br />
3.  Share this post with other authors who may be wondering what to do about books that have gone out of print.</p>
<p>Oh, and don&#8217;t forget to join the conversation about &#8220;slash careers&#8221; and share your experiences with others. There&#8217;s a <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/4097528599/?notif_t=group_r2j">slash &#8220;/&#8221; careers group on Facebook</a> that I plan to revive. I also regularly get calls from reporters doing &#8220;slash&#8221; stories and love having handy case studies ready to share. If you tweet, use the hashtag #slashcareers.</p>
<p>In a follow-up post, I&#8217;ll cover the steps you need to take to take a previously published book and reissue it as a digital and POD (print-on-demand) edition.</p>
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		<title>Farewell to My Yahoo! Blog</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 14:44:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>heymarci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I started the &#8220;Working the New Economy&#8221; blog in April, I knew it had an expiration date. I signed a short-term contract. I referred to myself as a guest blogger on Yahoo! Even the title, suggested that this was a project of limited duration. After all, how long could this &#8220;new economy&#8221; last? Now [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I started the &#8220;Working the New Economy&#8221; blog in April, I knew it had an expiration date. I signed a short-term contract. I referred to myself as a guest blogger on Yahoo! Even the title, suggested that this was a project of limited duration. After all, how long could this &#8220;new economy&#8221; last?</p>
<p>Now that it&#8217;s time to wrap up, it&#8217;s pretty clear that the new economy has become the new normal. And I can&#8217;t say that I have figured out exactly how to work it. Unemployment has now topped 10%. Counting those who are underemployed, it&#8217;s closer to 20%. Mass layoffs are still happening, including a round at BusinessWeek last week where several of my <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://twitter.com/heymarci/status/6051356828">most respected colleagues</a></strong> were shown the door.</p>
<p>One defining feature of this not-so-new-anymore economy is that we will all need to flexible and nimble. I&#8217;ve worked independently for nearly a decade. And now it seems that my usual mix of contract work, freelance relationships, consulting and other kinds of affiliations has become standard in what Tina Brown so aptly dubbed the <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2009-01-12/the-gig-economy/full/"> gig economy</a></strong>.</p>
<p>Getting the timing right while moving from gig to gig can be challenging. Between consulting projects, gigs, or temporary assignments, there are often long gaps with no work and times of too much of it. Which is why I&#8217;d like the bickering in Washington to include some discussion of providing health care for the self-employed. (Great analysis of this issue by <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://bit.ly/7JPaJV">Zeba Kahn here</a></strong>.) But I&#8217;m getting off track. {Read the rest at <strong><a href="http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/final-post-but-still-working-this-new-economy-548675/">Yahoo!</a></strong>}</p>
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		<title>Facebook: Are Your Friends Trusted Sources or Naggy Noisemakers?</title>
		<link>http://heymarci.com/2009/11/25/facebook-are-your-friends-trusted-sources-or-naggy-noisemakers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 13:28:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>heymarci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People have been worrying for a long time about mixing business and pleasure on Facebook. Much of the conversation centers around how much of their personal lives people want to reveal to colleagues and bosses. But lately I&#8217;ve been interested in the flip side of this. How and how much should people talk about their [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People have been worrying for a long time about mixing business and pleasure on Facebook. Much of the conversation centers around how much of their personal lives people want to <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.web-strategist.com/blog/2009/09/07/help-my-boss-wants-to-be-my-friend-on-facebook/"> reveal to colleagues and bosses</a></strong>. But lately I&#8217;ve been interested in the flip side of this. How and how much should people talk about their businesses, their work, or their causes on Facebook or other social networking sites?</p>
<p>The answer depends on how interesting your work, your business and your causes are to your friends. If what you post is interesting or useful, your friends will view you as a trusted source, someone they turn to for inside information, much like a personal news service. But if it&#8217;s all self-promotional blather, your friends will vote with their mice by either silencing you (using the handy <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.askdavetaylor.com/how_to_screen_filter_out_facebook_status_updates.html"> Facebook &#8220;hide&#8221; feature</a></strong>), or worse, hitting the &#8220;<strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20091117/lf_nm_life/us_words_unfriend">unfriend</a></strong>&#8221; button on the bottom left of the page.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s one thing to see friends promoting their own interests, but now companies are paying people with large social networks to <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://gawker.com/5410352/the-return-of-pay-per-post-and-the-end-of-twitter-internet-as-one-long-subervisive-ad?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+gawker%2Ffull+%28Gawker%29"> tout their brands on Twitter</a></strong>. {Read the rest on <strong><a href="http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/facebook-are-your-friends-trusted-sources-or-naggy-noisemakers-547697/">Yahoo!</a></strong>}</p>
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		<title>How to Critique Someone&#8217;s Writing</title>
		<link>http://heymarci.com/2009/11/23/how-to-critique-someones-writing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 13:38:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>heymarci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a person who makes my living with words, I&#8217;m regularly asked to read people&#8217;s writing and give feedback. A business plan. A resume. Website copy. A grad school application essay. A profile for an online dating site. I usually say some variation of yes to the request. But giving feedback is complex. Sometimes the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a person who makes my living with words, I&#8217;m regularly asked to read people&#8217;s writing and give feedback. A business plan. A resume. Website copy. A grad school application essay. A profile for an online dating site.</p>
<p>I usually say some variation of yes to the request. But giving feedback is complex. Sometimes the person really wants me re-write the piece, not just give feedback, which makes me feel uncomfortable. People are also vulnerable when they ask for feedback. So I have learned to tread the line between honesty and brutality.</p>
<p>Writers aren&#8217;t the only ones who are asked to give this kind of feedback. Everyone gets to play editor from time to time. As friends look for jobs, they need help with resumes and cover letters; children ask for help with essays and papers; bosses and colleagues need to know if a speech or report is up to snuff.</p>
<p>When I&#8217;m asked to give feedback, I try to follow the following few ground rules. These guidelines have helped me to be honest yet mindful of people&#8217;s feelings. They have also set up some useful boundaries and to create the best environment for helping people.</p>
<p>1. <strong>All feedback should include something constructive.</strong> When I started teaching seminars for <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.theopedproject.org/"><strong>The OpEd Project</strong></a>, the advice I got for reviewing student work was to start with two positive pieces of feedback because people hear constructive/critical feedback better after positive engagement is established. This is probably because of the <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negativity_bias">negativity bias</a></strong>, a psychological phenomenon which causes people to place more emphasis on negative experiences rather than positive ones. {Read the rest at <a href="http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/how-to-critique-someones-writing-545905/">Yahoo!</a>}</p>
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		<title>4 Reasons to Share Your Ideas</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 01:43:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>heymarci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are living in an age where the power of crowds is accomplishing big things. Writers, who used to guard their ideas now hone their thinking through blogs, build and audience, and then publish their books for a group of expectant readers. Every day experts spend their free time contributing to Wikipedia. And lately I&#8217;ve [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are living in an age where the power of crowds is accomplishing big things. Writers, who used to guard their ideas now hone their thinking through blogs, build and audience, and then <strong><span><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.happiness-project.com/">publish their books for a group of expectant readers</a></span></strong>. Every day experts spend their free time contributing to Wikipedia. And lately I&#8217;ve noticed a lot of folks encouraging would-be entrepreneurs to share their ideas.</p>
<p>Of course, there are times to be guarded. If you&#8217;ve got a concept or invention which might be patentable, then the only person you probably want to talk to is a lawyer. There are also times you want to be first to market a product or service (you don&#8217;t see Coke running to Pepsi about its latest product before it hits the shelves). But in many situations, sharing ideas with people you trust and respect is a good idea and here&#8217;s why: {Read the rest at <a href="http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/4-reasons-to-share-your-ideas-547058/">Yahoo!</a>}</p>
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		<title>In &#8220;Ten9Eight,&#8221; Urban Kids Choose Business, Not Drugs</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 01:37:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>heymarci</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Macalee Harlis, a high school football player from Fort Lauderdale, had one of those aha moments while playing football and looking at his coach&#8217;s transition lenses. He thought about how difficult both sun glare and stadium lights can be for players on the field. That&#8217;s when he came up with the idea for MAC Shields, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Macalee Harlis, a high school football player from Fort Lauderdale, had one of those aha moments while playing football and looking at his coach&#8217;s transition lenses. He thought about how difficult both sun glare and stadium lights can be for players on the field. That&#8217;s when he came up with the idea for <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.macshields.com/">MAC Shields</a></strong>, football helmet shields that function like transition lenses. Anne Montague runs a dance school in Baltimore aimed at keeping urban kids off the streets. Amanda Loyala manufactures and sells vegetarian, <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.ecodogtreats.com/about-us.html">eco-friendly dog treats</a></strong> that she whips up in her kitchen in New York City. She was inspired to create the treats after her dog died from cancer and she learned that red meat has been linked to cancer in dogs.</p>
<p>These entrepreneurs are trying to solve big problems with their businesses. And they are part of a bigger effort to keep urban kids from dropping out of school. They all started their businesses through the <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.nfte.com/">Network for Teaching Entrepreneurship</a></strong> (NFTE), a program that teaches business skills to middle and high school kids. NFTE&#8217;s program culminates in an annual business plan competition where the top students from schools around the country travel to New York City to pitch their business plans and vie for a $10,000 prize grand prize. {<a href="http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/in-quot-ten9eight-quot-urban-kids-choose-business-not-drugs-544905/">Read the rest at Yahoo!</a>}</p>
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		<title>How to Deal with Post-Conference Overload</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 17:32:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week I returned from a conference, which put me into my usual state of post-conference overload. My bag was busting with business cards; the conference agenda and my notebook were filled with notes I must have thought important at the time I scribbled them; and a tsunami of to-dos had landed on my desk [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week I returned from a conference, which put me into my usual state of post-conference overload. My bag was busting with business cards; the conference agenda and my notebook were filled with notes I must have thought important at the time I scribbled them; and a tsunami of to-dos had landed on my desk and in my inbox. I spent my first day back trying to processing what I learned at the conference while muddling through the rest of my work. I started thinking about what I&#8217;d tell myself if I wanted to make the most out of my conference experience. Here&#8217;s what I came up with:</p>
<p>1. Try to have a light schedule on your first day back. {This is really something you need to do before the conference to make your life easier afterwards. Because I violated this rule, I lost nearly a full Saturday playing catch up.} If you can keep at least the morning blocked off for conference follow-up, you&#8217;ll have the best chance of doing the other things on this list. The more time that passes after the conference, the less likely you&#8217;ll be to actually do the follow-up, connecting, and reflecting you should do.</p>
<p>2. Do something with the stack of business cards. At the very least, write something on them that will jog your memory of who the person is. After years of collecting business cards, I&#8217;ve finally accepted the fact that I won&#8217;t take the time to input contact information for most of them into my various address/email systems. That said, connecting with people on Facebook or LinkedIn takes almost no time and assures that you can find the people you want to keep track when you need them. I learned this from my cousin <a href="http://www.linkedin.com">Jennine</a> whom I stayed with while at my conference. She had just returned from an adventure travel conference and was linking up with all her new connections online. With each invitation, she included a note to jog the person&#8217;s memory of how they met. Connecting on LinkedIn also helps if you&#8217;re trying to find someone months after the conference since it allows you to search by keyword in addition to name. (Hat tip to Adelaide Lancaster, co-founder of  <a href="www.ingoodcompanyworkplaces.com">In Good Company Workplaces</a> for that handy tip.) {Read the rest at <a href="http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/how-to-deal-with-post-conference-overload-543808/">Yahoo!</a>}</p>
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		<title>The Secret to Good Introductions</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 17:32:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a congenital connector, I make introductions all the time. Usually I have good results. I&#8217;ve had an uncountable number of successful career matches and even ignited a few romances (one of which resulted in a strong marriage.) But sometimes I mess up and when I do, it usually boils down to one thing: I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a congenital connector, I make introductions all the time. Usually I have good results. I&#8217;ve had an uncountable number of successful career matches and even ignited a few romances (one of which resulted in a strong marriage.)</p>
<p>But sometimes I mess up and when I do, it usually boils down to one thing: I made an introduction where I thought two people would want to meet, or accepted a request from someone to get an introduction to someone else, but in the end both people weren&#8217;t interested in the introduction.</p>
<p>Fred Wilson, a venture capitalist who writes the excellent blog <a href="http://www.avc.com/">A VC</a>, recently wrote<a href="http://www.avc.com/a_vc/2009/11/the-double-optin-introduction.html"> a post</a> that distills everything you need to know about introductions into one simple rule: &#8220;When introducing two people who don&#8217;t know each other, ask each of them to opt-in to the introduction before making it.&#8221; He calls it the &#8220;Double Opt-In.&#8221; {Read the rest at <a href="http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/the-secret-to-good-introductions-542712/">Yahoo!</a>}</p>
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		<title>Choosing good work instead of good exits from work</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 05:35:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We’re used to a familiar path of life. You get educated. You work. And by the time you enter mid-life you probably juggle a few things. You still work. Maybe you have a family. You take care of your aging parents.  At some point, you retire. And then what? Years ago, when retirement was pegged [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’re used to a familiar path of life. You get educated. You work. And by the time you enter mid-life you probably juggle a few things. You still work. Maybe you have a family. You take care of your aging parents.  At some point, you retire. And then what? Years ago, when retirement was pegged at 65, retirement consisted of a decade or so of idle recreation. But now if retired at 65, your retirement years might last another twenty-five years.</p>
<p>But what if that were all flipped on its head? What if, instead, you studied throughout your life and only settled into your true career somewhere around midlife? And what if it was considered normal to work into your 80s instead of into your 60s? {Read the rest at <strong><a href="http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/choosing-good-work-instead-of-good-exits-from-work-533685/">Yahoo!</a></strong>}</p>
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		<title>How to survive a bad boss</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 15:51:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To mangle Tolstoy, good bosses are all alike. They are good mentors; they care about your happiness and advancement; their interests seem aligned with your own. Bad bosses, on the other hand, come in many flavors. And a new book, &#8220;Working for You Isn&#8217;t Working for Me,&#8221; by Katherine Crowley and Kathi Elster, provides a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To mangle Tolstoy, good bosses are all alike. They are good mentors; they care about your happiness and advancement; their interests seem aligned with your own.</p>
<p>Bad bosses, on the other hand, come in many flavors. And a new book, &#8220;<strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.amazon.com/Working-You-Isnt-Me-Ultimate/dp/1591842751/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1256917221&amp;sr=8-1">Working for You Isn&#8217;t Working for Me</a></strong>,&#8221; by <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.ksquaredenterprises.com/about.htm">Katherine Crowley and Kathi Elster</a></strong>, provides a field guide to the many species of bad boss. There&#8217;s the &#8220;checked out&#8221; boss (can these really survive in this kind of job market?), the &#8220;rule changer&#8221; (who tells you to take a lunch break then seems surprised you&#8217;re not at your desk), the &#8220;underminer&#8221; (who asks you for help and then makes it impossible for you to assist), the &#8220;chronic critic&#8221; (needs no explanation), and a slew of others. For each bad behavior, the authors give sample scenarios to help you recognize your situation, and then walks you through a process to take back power and correct it.</p>
<p>This is is a book that should sit next to your all your other reference bibles so that you can consult it as difficult situations arise. Meantime, I asked Katherine (KC) and Kathi (KE) to take a answer some questions that seem common enough we&#8217;ve all encountered them.<br />
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Q:  How is dealing with a bad boss different than dealing with a difficult family member?</strong></p>
<p>KC – Bosses and family members share often many characteristics, but by the time we’re adults, most of us don’t depend on difficult family members for our livelihood. A boss, on the other hand, has direct control over your paycheck and your daily experience at work.  A bad boss is like having a bad business parent who can have a negative impact on your career, your financial future and your confidence.</p>
<p>KE – Fortunately, the workplace offers clearer cut boundaries than home. There are employment laws, and people around who can monitor, filter and support your relationship with your boss.  But, in the family we have fewer options. The four-step process that we lay out in Working for You Isn’t Working for Me (detect, detach, depersonalize, and deal) would in fact work at home as well as in the workplace. {Read the rest at <strong><a href="http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/how-to-cope-with-a-bad-boss-532824/">Yahoo!</a></strong>}</p>
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